It all begins with the introduction. In order to get the attention of a person you don’t know but you are really interested with him or her, then it is time for you to make friends. You need to start by getting your act together and gain that confidence. Then introduce yourself and engage in conversations that will make him or her notice you and in turn attract that person towards to getting to know you better.
So don’t be too conscious about how they’re going to like you. Instead, shift your thinking to how you’re going to like them. Claim that they will like you. As you approach them, you will notice that they will try to ready themselves for you so you need to walk with confidence.
Don’t feel awkward as you approach them. Remember that you are not the only person that needs to be confident, they too are into the consciousness that they should be at their best too when you are around. So be at your best as well. Do not give them the benefit that you are unequal with them and you are the inferior one since you are making the first move or else, you will really feel awkward. Bear in mind that everyone wants to get noticed. So you both start at the same grounds, technically speaking.
Approach them with a smile. Be genuine about it. Make an eye contact as you do so. Then say your name, and then extend your hand for a handshake. You can expect that they too will say their names. Remember as you do this, do not be slouchy or make unnecessary movements. Then ask open-ended questions so you can start a conversation. Do not sound like you are engaging them in an interrogation. Always have conversations that will spark their interest and they are much willing to share their thoughts about it. Then be a good listener. Do not try to monopolize the whole conversation.
Also, be generous of praise and show your excitement with what they say then you can either agree or disagree with them. You should be careful when you this though. You need to be polite and at the same time be eager to speak your mind out. As you converse, make sure that it is always about them so switch the topic to them and what they know. Do not try to impress them by showing off. That will not work.
Remember their names and facts about them. Do not focus entirely with the person you are interested with. Friends of the person you like are also a part of the package so you need to make them feel good about you too. Then if you are ready to invite them or that person, then go ahead. You will know how to time it definitely. Don’t take it personally if they can’t make time for it. Just be thankful for that wonderful time you had with them. However, if they do respond you favorably, then you know that this is the beginning of your quest in order to attract the person you like, along with the fact that you have gained more friends and this should have boosted your confidence.
So don’t be too conscious about how they’re going to like you. Instead, shift your thinking to how you’re going to like them. Claim that they will like you. As you approach them, you will notice that they will try to ready themselves for you so you need to walk with confidence.
Don’t feel awkward as you approach them. Remember that you are not the only person that needs to be confident, they too are into the consciousness that they should be at their best too when you are around. So be at your best as well. Do not give them the benefit that you are unequal with them and you are the inferior one since you are making the first move or else, you will really feel awkward. Bear in mind that everyone wants to get noticed. So you both start at the same grounds, technically speaking.
Approach them with a smile. Be genuine about it. Make an eye contact as you do so. Then say your name, and then extend your hand for a handshake. You can expect that they too will say their names. Remember as you do this, do not be slouchy or make unnecessary movements. Then ask open-ended questions so you can start a conversation. Do not sound like you are engaging them in an interrogation. Always have conversations that will spark their interest and they are much willing to share their thoughts about it. Then be a good listener. Do not try to monopolize the whole conversation.
Also, be generous of praise and show your excitement with what they say then you can either agree or disagree with them. You should be careful when you this though. You need to be polite and at the same time be eager to speak your mind out. As you converse, make sure that it is always about them so switch the topic to them and what they know. Do not try to impress them by showing off. That will not work.
Remember their names and facts about them. Do not focus entirely with the person you are interested with. Friends of the person you like are also a part of the package so you need to make them feel good about you too. Then if you are ready to invite them or that person, then go ahead. You will know how to time it definitely. Don’t take it personally if they can’t make time for it. Just be thankful for that wonderful time you had with them. However, if they do respond you favorably, then you know that this is the beginning of your quest in order to attract the person you like, along with the fact that you have gained more friends and this should have boosted your confidence.
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